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Writer and creative in Catalonia, finding balance between chaos, coffee, and second chances.

Permission Granted

Today I give myself permission. I give myself permission to exist wherever I am,to enjoy the air moving around me,to luxuriate in the comfort of my warm bed. I give myself permission to share space with my animals who love me,to be proud of how I take care of my home,to feel OK with being … Continue reading Permission Granted →

kbravoco The Rebuild Leave a comment September 8, 2025September 8, 2025 1 Minute

Small Joys, Quiet Wins

Have you ever agreed to something because it sounded like a good idea at the time, and then the moment comes and you’re sitting there thinking, why did I say yes to this? What am I saying — of course you have, everybody does that. This week started out exactly like that for me, but … Continue reading Small Joys, Quiet Wins →

kbravoco Creative Work & Writing Leave a comment September 7, 2025April 26, 2026 5 Minutes

Two Voices, One Choice: Mine or Not Mine

How Do You Know If You’ve Ended the Day Successfully? This one is dedicated to, well, you know who you are. Thank you. I don’t think you really know if you’ve ended a day successfully until you wake up the next morning. That’s what I realized this week after being thrown into one of those … Continue reading Two Voices, One Choice: Mine or Not Mine →

kbravoco The Rebuild Leave a comment September 4, 2025April 26, 2026 5 Minutes

Back to normal …

Today feels like the real wrap up of summer here, and it’s one of those changes you can actually see and hear. Just a few days ago the town was bursting at the seams, with voices carrying up from the beach starting before 6:30 in the morning and still drifting through the streets at one … Continue reading Back to normal … →

kbravoco Creative Work & Writing Leave a comment September 2, 2025 2 Minutes

Brené Brown – am I right?

Have you ever heard someone say something that didn’t just sound wise but actually cracked you open and changed how you lived? I’m not talking about a quote you slap on a mug and put on Etsy for “inspiration,” or some obscure line you drop at a party to make yourself sound smarter than you … Continue reading Brené Brown – am I right? →

kbravoco Creative Work & Writing Leave a comment August 27, 2025September 4, 2025 5 Minutes

To Hill and Back

This is the story of how I am winning my weight loss battle. And the truth is, a big part of it comes down to moving to Spain. What matters most about that is that it has happened in spite of everything else going on in my life. I moved to Spain for a lot … Continue reading To Hill and Back →

kbravoco The Rebuild 1 Comment August 24, 2025November 10, 2025 4 Minutes

The Mirror

On my bathroom mirror there is a blue index card, taped up with regular old invisible tape. The card itself hasn’t faded, but you can see the marks where the tape has been peeled off and stuck back down, because I’ve moved it from mirror to mirror, or sometimes pressed it to another card when … Continue reading The Mirror →

kbravoco The Rebuild Leave a comment August 23, 2025April 26, 2026 4 Minutes

Another One of Those Weeks

Lord, what I wouldn’t give for just a few weeks of mundane problems. The kind of “everyday annoyances” that don’t feel like they’re going to change the entire course of your life. I try to keep perspective. I look at the world and see people suffering in ways I can’t even imagine, and compared to … Continue reading Another One of Those Weeks →

kbravoco Creative Work & Writing 2 Comments August 22, 2025September 4, 2025 1 Minute

Stepped Back to Step Forward

I’ve been quiet for a couple of days, partly because I’ve been healing from my falls, partly because I found out my visa renewal is coming up a lot sooner than I thought. (Cue panic, paperwork, and a little bit of hiding.) I promised myself I’d post every day, but sometimes life decides otherwise. But … Continue reading Stepped Back to Step Forward →

kbravoco The Blog Journey 3 Comments August 21, 2025November 10, 2025 2 Minutes

What happens next?

Well, it happened—I missed a day of posting. Some days you have to just turn it all off for your own well-being, and yesterday was that day. I was overwhelmed this weekend. Between email misunderstandings, rent stress, and the isolation that comes with moving to another country alone, it all just caught up with me. … Continue reading What happens next? →

kbravoco Creative Work & Writing Leave a comment August 18, 2025April 26, 2026 1 Minute

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